Have you ever wondered what it is really like to use an internet dating site?
The thought has entered your head but you are scared of what people will think of you? Or maybe you are scared that you will meet an axe murderer, a catfish or even worst someone you know!!
In this day and age most people live a very busy life, which is consumed by going to work early in the morning, coming home at unsociable hours after a long day and relaxing in the comforts of their home. Then at weekends the time is spent recovering from the hectic week you just escaped from before dawning on the reality that you have to go back to the grind again on Monday morning!
So where will the time come from to find a spouse? There is no eligible bachelors at your workplace, you have not spotted your prince charming on your commute to work and not even the mail man is attractive anymore!! Where do you go from here?
Internet dating is a way to search for compatibility from the comforts of your surroundings and in your own time. There are millions of people who are using this method to find a partner and although it is like finding a needle in a haystack, it can actually work!
Yes, there are a number of things to watch out for, but sometimes you just need to ‘let go and think outside of the box’
Over the coming weeks we will be exploring this form of dating by sharing some real experiences, Good and Bad!
Feel free to comment and share your own experiences.
what are the taboos?
They are things like:
‘You are only going to meet fake people on there’, ‘the guys only go on there looking for sex’, ‘how can you meet someone over the Internet’, ‘they might not be who they are’, ‘that’s desperate’, ‘how can you stoop so low’, ‘ you can’t trust anyone from Internet dating’ and many many more! I’m sure we all have a few reservations about the matter or have at one point! But it’s all built on the ‘unknown’. It about trying out something new!